Remembering the Flowers: A Personal Call to Action for Ukraine

In the fall of 2024, I traveled east to the frontlines. As the city faded behind me and the bombed-out villages receded, all that remained were the bare fields of sunflowers. The headless stems stood tilted in different directions, reminiscent of a vast cemetery. And yet, this desolate landscape was illuminated by the occasional blooming flower that sprouted after the reaper had taken its harvest.

I keep thinking about flowers on the battlefields as I think about Ukraine. Ukraine has forged its identity through centuries of attempts by larger powers to erase it. And yet, it has always regenerated itself in one form or another. Borderland places have deep roots, nourished by multiple histories, strengthening their sense of self and enriching their culture.

My Ukraine Fundraiser

Still, it’s hard to avoid feeling despair and anger given the current situation. I’m channeling my energy into preparing for my trip to Ukraine and my fundraiser for Kyiv’s Children Art School. The school works with children traumatized by war and provides them with free art classes and a safe space. The money donated is converted into art supplies that children can use right away to learn new skills and heal.

If you’re interested in helping, your donation will be much appreciated. To Donate in USD. To Donate in EUR. If you’re interested to participate in my seminar on Ukrainian perfumery broadcast from Ukraine on March 14th, via Zoom, 12pm EST, the proceeds will go to the art school. To Join Seminar.

You can follow updates about my Ukrainian trip and fundraiser via my Instagram: @boisdejasmin

In the meantime, there are other ways in which you can help Ukraine.

Donate to a cause that speaks to you.

Communicate your support for Ukraine to your political leaders. This makes a major difference.

How to Contact Your Elected Officials

Every U.S. citizen has one Representative and two Senators, all of whom can be contacted through various methods. Here are the most effective ways to reach them:

  • Call their office  This is usually the most direct and effective approach. You might speak with a staffer or get voicemail (though voicemail boxes can sometimes be full).
  • Send an email   Less impactful than a call, but still worth doing. Many legislators have contact forms on their official websites.
  • Mail a letter   A traditional but slower method. Still, it’s very effective.

See an example message here, but keep in mind that you need to edit it to update it (the war has been going on for 3 years already, not 8 months, as in this example).

Take part in a local action

Learn about Ukraine and its culture.

There are many reading lists online, and I will add my own later. The list by the historian Serhii Plokhy is very good: Five Books.

My book The Rooster House is not about the current war, but it explains the context in which it takes place. I also recommend this podcast to learn about Ukraine and its identity: The Ukrainian identity (with Lydia Tomkiw)

In Conclusion

I urge you to notice beauty. Beauty in the moment. Beauty in nature. Beauty that cannot be erased or destroyed. That kind of beauty exists within us, too. Some call divine, others natural. Being mindful of it—through whatever channels speak to you, whether art, books, writing, cooking, perfume, or gardening—makes you remarkably resilient.

That’s why I will always remember the flowers on the frontlines—and never give up hope.

Photography by Bois de Jasmin, from the frontlines.

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12 Comments

  • Hamamelis: My thoughts have been with you, and with Ukraine, especially ofcourse in the last days. I keep thinking of your great grandmother’s boots and the strength and resilience it shows.
    I have been donating monthly for a long time now to a charity in Kherson, I think I mentioned it. It is being run by a very brave and loyal man from South Africa who tries to look after the hundreds of pets that their owners had to leave behind. He does this with very limited means, and in constant danger of the horrible drones.
    In these times, when I can get angry and sad, I remember to ‘always think of the helpers’. You are one of the helpers, and I will donate to your causes ofcourse.
    Wearing the beautiful Hasu-no-Hana and enjoying the first crocusses of Spring. March 3, 2025 at 9:34am Reply

  • Hamamelis: PS Would it be possible to have the paypal option to donate in euro’s besides in dollars? Thank you! March 3, 2025 at 9:47am Reply

  • Tara C: My thoughts are with you and all of Ukraine, especially after the recent meeting in Washington which was absolutely shameful.

    I have been supporting individuals directly in the Ukraine but appreciate the list of resources to branch that out. March 3, 2025 at 1:10pm Reply

    • Victoria: Thank you very much, Tara! March 4, 2025 at 11:20am Reply

  • Carine: My thoughts have been with you and your beautiful and brave Ukraine.Thank you for inspiring us and guiding us into ways of helping Ukraine. I will definitely donate and contribute. I have so much admiration and respect for the Ukrainian people who resist with tremendous courage and dignity. Be safe and stay strong Victoria, we stand by your side. March 4, 2025 at 7:45am Reply

    • Victoria: Thank you for your support and generosity! I’m grateful for readers like you, especially during these dark days. March 4, 2025 at 11:21am Reply

  • Lori: I signed up for your seminar in support of Ukraine prior to the horrific recent events but have also written to my representatives in Congress and plan to continue with phone calls. Thank you for posting the links that make it so easy to take action. Continued prayers for Ukraine. March 4, 2025 at 3:19pm Reply

  • Aurora: Thank you so much Victoria for the very useful links about Ukraine, my financial contribution is modest but I will repeat it next month and the month after that. I am happy at the moment that my two countries France and the United Kingdom are stepping up efforts to support Ukraine and committing troups if necessary, hopefully through the United Nations. I never thought I would feel this way with my pacifist beliefs but I’m glad De Gaulle and Churchill had the vision to build an independent nuclear deterrent apart from the US. March 5, 2025 at 5:56am Reply

  • Johanna: Thank you for this very comprehensive list. I’m in Canada and have donated several times since that disgraceful behaviour in the White House. I can’t imagine how you and all Ukrainians aroiund the world must be feeling right now. March 10, 2025 at 2:29pm Reply

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