In the fall of 2024, I traveled east to the frontlines. As the city faded behind me and the bombed-out villages receded, all that remained were the bare fields of sunflowers. The headless stems stood tilted in different directions, reminiscent of a vast cemetery. And yet, this desolate landscape was illuminated by the occasional blooming flower that sprouted after the reaper had taken its harvest.
I keep thinking about flowers on the battlefields as I think about Ukraine. Ukraine has forged its identity through centuries of attempts by larger powers to erase it. And yet, it has always regenerated itself in one form or another. Borderland places have deep roots, nourished by multiple histories, strengthening their sense of self and enriching their culture.
My Ukraine Fundraiser
Still, it’s hard to avoid feeling despair and anger given the current situation. I’m channeling my energy into preparing for my trip to Ukraine and my fundraiser for Kyiv’s Children Art School. The school works with children traumatized by war and provides them with free art classes and a safe space. The money donated is converted into art supplies that children can use right away to learn new skills and heal.
If you’re interested in helping, your donation will be much appreciated. To Donate in USD. To Donate in EUR. If you’re interested to participate in my seminar on Ukrainian perfumery broadcast from Ukraine on March 14th, via Zoom, 12pm EST, the proceeds will go to the art school. To Join Seminar.
You can follow updates about my Ukrainian trip and fundraiser via my Instagram: @boisdejasmin
In the meantime, there are other ways in which you can help Ukraine.
Donate to a cause that speaks to you.
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- Harvard University has compiled a particularly comprehensive list: Lists of places to donate and ways to help.
- Ukraine Institute London also has an excellent list: What can you do to support Ukraine & Ukrainians?
- Comprehensive list of ways foreigners can help
- Bake for Ukraine
— an organization that secures the local food supply by supporting local bakeries and farmers mainly in the zones most affected by the war.
–they respond to the war by providing critical humanitarian war relief and recovery depending on the most urgent needs. They have detailed lists on their website of what they are focused on delivering, including tactical medicine items, hospital supplies, etc.
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–support the independent Ukrainian English-language journalism.
- The Ukrainian Museum in New York City
- The Ukrainian Institute
- Ukrainian Research Institute at Harvard University
- A unique animal charity recommended by our reader Sofie. “A charity in Kherson, Warriors of Wildlife, https://www.
warriorsofwildlife.org/ ukraine-war/ is run by one man (Lional de Lange) , sometimes with volunteers, and a small group of Ukrainian elderly who don’t want to leave Kherson and the many animals there. Lionel de Lange is quite desperate as it is very hard to feed the animals because donations have gotten more sparse in the course of the war, and generally people’s financial situations often being difficult. He will never leave the animals, but he is not young and his health is not good, and he often risks his life as the drones in Kherson are really horrible, following people and animals so quickly that escape is almost impossible.” Please support Warriors of Wildlife.
Communicate your support for Ukraine to your political leaders. This makes a major difference.
How to Contact Your Elected Officials
Every U.S. citizen has one Representative and two Senators, all of whom can be contacted through various methods. Here are the most effective ways to reach them:
- Call their office This is usually the most direct and effective approach. You might speak with a staffer or get voicemail (though voicemail boxes can sometimes be full).
- Send an email Less impactful than a call, but still worth doing. Many legislators have contact forms on their official websites.
- Mail a letter A traditional but slower method. Still, it’s very effective.
See an example message here, but keep in mind that you need to edit it to update it (the war has been going on for 3 years already, not 8 months, as in this example).
Take part in a local action
Learn about Ukraine and its culture.
There are many reading lists online, and I will add my own later. The list by the historian Serhii Plokhy is very good: Five Books.
My book The Rooster House is not about the current war, but it explains the context in which it takes place. I also recommend this podcast to learn about Ukraine and its identity: The Ukrainian identity (with Lydia Tomkiw)
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- Twitter accounts to follow – scholars: @channelljustice, @SPlokhy, @Oleh_kotsyuba @dobczansky, @ksvarnon, @OKhromeychuk, @OxanaShevel, @darelasn, @JesZychowicz, @HJColeman68, @tanyalokot, @oonuch, @UmlandAndreas, @ykomska, @Marusiasays, @steven_seegel, @JohnVsetecka
- Twitter and Instagram accounts to follow – art: @ukr_arthistory, @honchar.museum @pyrohiv.museum
- Instagram accounts – crafts, cuisine: @vydymonevydymo @klopotenko, @olia.hercules
- There are many other accounts, of course. I’m mentioning my personal favorites and I will be adding more to the list over time.
In Conclusion
I urge you to notice beauty. Beauty in the moment. Beauty in nature. Beauty that cannot be erased or destroyed. That kind of beauty exists within us, too. Some call divine, others natural. Being mindful of it—through whatever channels speak to you, whether art, books, writing, cooking, perfume, or gardening—makes you remarkably resilient.
That’s why I will always remember the flowers on the frontlines—and never give up hope.
Photography by Bois de Jasmin, from the frontlines.
12 Comments
Hamamelis: My thoughts have been with you, and with Ukraine, especially ofcourse in the last days. I keep thinking of your great grandmother’s boots and the strength and resilience it shows.
I have been donating monthly for a long time now to a charity in Kherson, I think I mentioned it. It is being run by a very brave and loyal man from South Africa who tries to look after the hundreds of pets that their owners had to leave behind. He does this with very limited means, and in constant danger of the horrible drones.
In these times, when I can get angry and sad, I remember to ‘always think of the helpers’. You are one of the helpers, and I will donate to your causes ofcourse.
Wearing the beautiful Hasu-no-Hana and enjoying the first crocusses of Spring. March 3, 2025 at 9:34am
Hamamelis: PS Would it be possible to have the paypal option to donate in euro’s besides in dollars? Thank you! March 3, 2025 at 9:47am
Victoria: Yes, absolutely. Here is the link in euros: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?business=ZT3B7MPSDSEA4&no_recurring=0&item_name=Fundraising+for+Kyiv%27s+Children+Art+School+to+provide+art+supplies.+Children+receive+free+lessons+and+shelter.¤cy_code=EUR March 3, 2025 at 10:37am
Hamamelis: Great, thank you! Just donated. Be safe! March 3, 2025 at 10:41am
Victoria: Thank you very much for your generosity! Your support means so much to me. March 3, 2025 at 10:43am
Tara C: My thoughts are with you and all of Ukraine, especially after the recent meeting in Washington which was absolutely shameful.
I have been supporting individuals directly in the Ukraine but appreciate the list of resources to branch that out. March 3, 2025 at 1:10pm
Victoria: Thank you very much, Tara! March 4, 2025 at 11:20am
Carine: My thoughts have been with you and your beautiful and brave Ukraine.Thank you for inspiring us and guiding us into ways of helping Ukraine. I will definitely donate and contribute. I have so much admiration and respect for the Ukrainian people who resist with tremendous courage and dignity. Be safe and stay strong Victoria, we stand by your side. March 4, 2025 at 7:45am
Victoria: Thank you for your support and generosity! I’m grateful for readers like you, especially during these dark days. March 4, 2025 at 11:21am
Lori: I signed up for your seminar in support of Ukraine prior to the horrific recent events but have also written to my representatives in Congress and plan to continue with phone calls. Thank you for posting the links that make it so easy to take action. Continued prayers for Ukraine. March 4, 2025 at 3:19pm
Aurora: Thank you so much Victoria for the very useful links about Ukraine, my financial contribution is modest but I will repeat it next month and the month after that. I am happy at the moment that my two countries France and the United Kingdom are stepping up efforts to support Ukraine and committing troups if necessary, hopefully through the United Nations. I never thought I would feel this way with my pacifist beliefs but I’m glad De Gaulle and Churchill had the vision to build an independent nuclear deterrent apart from the US. March 5, 2025 at 5:56am
Johanna: Thank you for this very comprehensive list. I’m in Canada and have donated several times since that disgraceful behaviour in the White House. I can’t imagine how you and all Ukrainians aroiund the world must be feeling right now. March 10, 2025 at 2:29pm